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Pain: joints, back, and new aches

Pain has many causes—arthritis, nerve irritation, muscle strain, medication effects, and more. This page helps you get clear on what’s happening and what to do next.

Section: Common Issues
Quick safety check Pain is common, but it’s not always “normal.” If pain is severe, sudden, or comes with weakness, fever, or numbness, get checked promptly.

Step 1: Name the pain (this helps your clinician help you)

  • Where exactly? one spot vs multiple joints; one side vs both
  • What does it feel like? sharp, dull, burning, electric, throbbing
  • What triggers it? walking, stairs, standing, sitting, reaching, turning in bed
  • What helps? rest, heat, movement, changing position, time of day

Step 2: Track for 7 days (not forever)

  • Rate pain 0–10 once or twice per day.
  • Write down what you were doing when it flared.
  • Note morning stiffness (minutes?) and how quickly you “loosen up.”
Small but powerful Many joint issues respond better to gentle, consistent movement than to total rest.

Step 3: Safe first steps (while you schedule care)

  • Keep moving lightly: short walks, easy range-of-motion, frequent breaks.
  • Heat or cold: some people prefer heat for stiffness, cold for swelling.
  • Sleep + stress: poor sleep makes pain feel louder.
  • Medication caution: over‑the‑counter pain meds can interact with other meds or affect kidneys, blood pressure, or stomach. If you’re unsure, ask your pharmacist or clinician first.

Red flags: don’t “push through” these

  • New weakness, numbness, or trouble walking
  • Fever, chills, unexplained weight loss
  • New bowel/bladder problems (especially with back pain)
  • Severe pain after a fall or injury
  • Hot, swollen joint with severe pain (especially if you feel ill)

What to ask at your appointment

  • “Is this more like arthritis, a nerve issue, or a soft‑tissue injury?”
  • “Would physical therapy help me move better and reduce pain?”
  • “Do I need imaging now, or should we try a treatment plan first?”
  • “What can I safely do for flare-ups?”

Ask your clinician (starter questions)
  • “What serious causes are we ruling out?”
  • “Could any of my medications or supplements contribute?”
  • “What is the simplest next step or test?”
  • “What can I safely do at home while we figure this out?”
  • “What symptoms should make me call you sooner or get urgent care?”

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This page is educational and not medical advice. If symptoms are severe or sudden, seek urgent care.